From the arguments that rage over
the Islamic veil and the bikini, a battle between the conservatives and liberal
secular forces, you would think it can be summed up as: nudity is liberation and covering up is
oppression from the secular faction. A Tunisian woman took the bait,
and from the birth place of the Arab-Spring she displayed her breasts, with "My
body is mine, not somebody's honour" written across it, clearly aimed at the conservative faction of
society. This is supposed to contribute towards the advancement for
women’s rights, because the argument goes, it shows that she has control over
her body, nobody (men in particular) is forcing her to cover up. One would
assume the protest in a different form would take place, if the women were
forced to walk around topless in Tunisia in the first place.
On that note, women who chose to
wear the Hijab (head scarf) under the
previous regime were treated awfully, and in countries like Turkey the HIjab was banned in public life. The
same argument of women having control over their bodies and having the ability
to exercise their choice is applicable here, but it did not lead to the
feminists screaming; hence, why the selectivity? Ironically, it seems the
feminists are pandering to the male urges through the back door, as they are
only intervening when women want to strip!
In any case, the argument that
women are empowered by giving them a choice to strip because it shows they have
control over their bodies is fundamentally flawed. In any society, no individual,
man or woman, has absolute right and choice over their body. Otherwise suicide,
various forms of self-harm, abortion and public nudity would be legal across
the board. In fact, women and men in all
societies are forced to cover up to some extent, as public nudity is illegal in
almost all the societies in the world. Then, why does it mark progression for
one to appear as nude as possible?
Historically, for centuries European
colonisers have criticised the natives in Africa, Central and Latin America and
elsewhere for not adequately covering their bodies, driven by Christian values
and missionaries; today bearing all seems to be a mark of progress and
civilisation. This reflects the transition to a secular liberal society from a
conservative Christian society. It is not just the monotheistic Abrahamic
faiths of Christianity, Judaism and Islam that upholds the values of dressing modestly
to help maintain decency and harmony between the genders; most societies across
the world have similar values, even in the godless Communist societies, men and
women do not walk around nude or topless in general.
Therefore, it is not the dictates
of religion but a basic human trait that tells us to cover up our bodies, hence
it is so widespread. A trait that distinguishes us from the animals; we
understand the notion of shame, privacy and draw distinction between public and
private life; accordingly we are intimate with our spouses in private. I am
told even most animals to some extent exhibit this trait with the exception of
the Pig. Of course, secular forces to some extent work against these
conservative values, as secularism often defines itself in this way.
For sure, displaying ones private
parts will not result in furthering women’s rights - it is a primitive
expression like that exhibited by animals and does not elevate anyone; it
simply sends the punk like message that I am a rebel and not conforming to the
social and legal conventions. The Tunisian woman is at a loss, and such acts
will only reinforce the conservative notion that we need to maintain modesty
which contributes towards keeping harmony between the genders.
Rather, women’s rights should be
viewed in the context of how they are treated by law with respect to the
opposite gender in the same level, meaning compare brother and sister, mother
and father. For example, equal pay, equal access to certain facilities, and
protection from domestic violence. There are deeper theological issues that are
connected with the differences between the genders, which often get ignored
during the discourse on gender equality and rights. Hence, there are many areas
differential treatments are required. Even in the West, it is recognised that a
man walking around topless is not the same as a woman. A woman with child should be given
preferential treatment. You hear women say they would like to be treated like a
woman or a lady, meaning not like your best male pal. These conventions display
the inherent gender differences and how they are treated is partially
subjective as different societies have different social conventions and its
only arrogance that lead some of us to look down on the social conventions in other
societies.
In addition, the gender
relationship is complex with many levels. A male can be a child and the female
can be a grandmother or an aunty or a cousin or an elder sister or a spouse. Often
this complexity also gets overlooked, partly due to the breakdown of the
traditional family unit, and the focus is always on the adult woman in relation
to her opposite peer.
Yamin Zakaria (yamin@radicalviews.org,
#yaminzakaria)
Published on 1/04/2013
London, UK
no protesting topless only lowers the value of the new found democracy
ReplyDeleteEducated, free women, use there brains and not there bodies to move forwards in this world .
The comments ON DIFFERENT SITES FROM MEN show were this young day has put herself , enough said sigh !!!!
ReplyDeleteIn the patriarchy only the worst sort of women put themselves on display, like meat on a butcher's slab. I am reminded of the BBC documentary I saw of the sepia photographs of topless Moroccan prostitutes by Albert Kahn in the early 20th century. http://www.albertkahn.co.uk/index.html
ReplyDeleteWomen who are not prostitutes, and who are not desperate to sell their bodies in order to eat and live, are expected to cover themselves up by their fathers or husbands or family pride. They may do so out of gratitude not to be a common prostitute, perhaps.
Let us therefore think of clothes as packaging. Once it is removed, mystery would be lost and flaws revealed.
Why would a woman want to lose her mystery or be seen as a common prostitute?
Why would a woman want men she has no desire to mate with to desire her?
Is it to mock them? Or to have sex with as many men as possible?
What are we to think of the men of such a society who allow their women to behave in this way without protest?
Feminism, you will have noticed, is irrational. It is basically preferring the primitive to the advanced, out of sheer perversity. It is also inefficient, for feminism is about allowing women to do men's jobs badly while neglecting their own or expecting men to do women's work badly.
It is obviously undignified to go around dressed in one's underwear. However, what these feminists actually want is for men to allow women to dress like prostitutes while being treated like princesses while being forbidden from pointing out that their princess is behaving worse than a whore while dressing like one.
What would happen to a beautiful woman if she chose to walk half naked alone through a high crime neighbourhood?
What would be the purpose of so doing?
It must be to mock the poor.
Should the rich be allowed to mock the poor?
I think they should have the right, as long as they take the consequences of so doing.
An ostentatious display often results in encouraging the sins of envy, anger, lust and avarice with certain consequences for the object of envy as well as the owner of the object of envy.